Male Friends Who Were ‘Just Playing’ Nearly Drowned Me, Twice

‘Boys will be boys’ is a deadly euphemism

Danielle Loewen
Fearless She Wrote
Published in
6 min readJul 20, 2021

--

Trigger warning: an honest depiction of what it feels like to almost drown.

“It’s only a joke”
“I was just playing”
“Don’t take it so seriously”
“Why are you making such a big deal out of it?”

--

--

Danielle Loewen
Fearless She Wrote

she/her | reader | queer feminist | recovering academic | body lover | gamer | poet & fabulist